You guys know about the phone call cards on which you buy in a store scratch off the back for a special code to call the world for cheaper? Well last night, in a overpopulated car, mostly with men I learned that such a things exists for porn too. It's card on which you can have a limited amount of watching time and a code that unlocked video's on a certain website. Maybe this is common knowlegde but I didn't know about there existence!

So as I was saying, I was in a car with a lot of testosterone in it, and at one point they started talking about porn. Oh the fool I am got excited for I was about to hear real young adults talking about it. So i told them about this project, my biggest mistake!! Hehe, they stopped talking almost instantly right when I was about to "enter the male psyche". I should've not said that I was listening and studying what they would say!!

So my research continues on the internet.

The biggest concern about girls in a relationship with a man that watches porn is that the male might expect more from his lover after seeing them on the screen. We all dread the "Why don't you do this or that".
But girls, we just might do it too.
Did you never watch a movie and sigh at the main character for his perfection, wishing you man was just as loving, creative and simply a perfect gentlemen. We can be infatuated with a chick flick mr.right.
Even biologically, men and women want different things.
For guys, their bodies are made to want as much offspring as possible. This may not show in our society but that's what our basic instinct thrives to do. We are made to procreate and men's goal is to plant their seed as much as possible.
For girls, we are made to chose a patient, caring and healthy mate. We need our offspring to be strong and we need someone to help us take care of the baby and us. We need someone to feed us, and protect us and such. Again, this is our primal instinct.
This just goes to show how different our needs are and may explain our approach to sexuality.